A girl loves from her heart. When she surrenders herself to somebody, her expressions will suggest this change. A girl will try her best to mask her feelings but her pure love for the guy of her dreams should just easily be able to identify that she has been touched by the cupid spell.
As psychology states that men do not think from the heart so being a man it must be too stressful for you to realize how a girl looks at you and what she thinks about you, which is why you end up misinterpreting her feelings leaving her in a mess. If you want to find a girl for yourself, you should be able to know through the oblique signals she will pass through her eyes and gestures that would well be able to convince you if she likes you.It is easy to tell if a girl likes you. Be observant and sincere and you would soon know that she is hinting at you to ask her out.
Start by initiating a conversation with her and then going through her responses. If her replies are cold and short, then you do not stand a chance. But if she tries to lengthen the conversation by giving long replies, you should take this a positive sign.
Secondly, you must see if she steals a glance at you every now and then. She looks at and shy away when you accidentally land a gaze on her. She should blush. Even if she maintains an eye contact continuously, then it is time for butterfly feeling to enter your stomach.
Thirdly, her body language will help you know if she is fine when you accidentally brush and she does not receive it uncomfortably. If she touches you by placing her hand on you, you must let yourself roll with excitement.
She should be fond of mimicking you if she shows any interest. Even among conversations with friends, you would land in her conversations suddenly and you might even find her eyes searching for you and not paying heed to the friends.
You are talking crazy and she laughs! Then she is surely interested in you. This is a huge sign. Girls when in love consider all rubbish men say in order not to make them feel like losers.These tips are from high school students. They work equally well on adults.
Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. If you like a girl, don’t let her slip away, tell her the truth, but if you don’t like her and she told you that she does, don’t say anything…it can break her heart. And when she tells you that, and, you don’t like her, tell her that she’s a great person. Girls like it when boys say they like something that they did or either said you’re great at something. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she’s shy, the tone of her voice might be a little more soft, and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping), adjusting her clothes, and might stare at you. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at only your boring or stupid joke. (Though, don’t use bad jokes as a test, or you’ll risk looking like a comedy dork.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot because she is thinking of funny, nice gossip.
- A girl that’s interested in you will usually immediately smile when you start a conversation with her. The smile may disappear quickly if she’s shy, but it’s hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If she’s not interested (that doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you, but she likely doesn’t have a crush on you), she’ll likely look at you inquisitively, but she won’t express any particular strong emotion.
Watch for signs of flirting. If she’s flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirting girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Although some girls have no idea they are flirting. Most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirting ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don’t “flirt around”. Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn’t mean anything to you. And she has nothing you like or she doesn’t act the way you like girls.
Notice if she gives you random hugs. With this, you can go alone with it if you want, or just act busy like you’re late for class or something.
Notice if she “accidentally” bumps into you more often than what people do (she’s obviously trying to touch you or feel how strong or soft you are). If she finds excuses to do so, then you’re probably on the right track. Tell her it was okay and you’re fine. But conversely, don’t assume that she doesn’t like you because her fall didn’t touch you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself. She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to the body.
Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you. Some girls might just be staring so don’t think she loves you and wants to kiss. But if she holds the stare, and you see love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction
Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you’ll hear “(your name), (her name) likes you!” Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. So you should probably listen to stuff like, “stop teasing me!” or “be quiet! He might hear!!” When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date me or (her name), who do you like better, who is the hottest, would you marry (her name) or me, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they’re trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.
Look out for the damsels in distress. If you’re outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying “I’m cold!”, that’s a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, look for her mad and tell her that who ever she likes gave it to him to give it to her. In which case at least you’ll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can’t do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.
Smile at her. Do a natural smile – don’t freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, she is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.
Notice little things she does for you. If she’s always there for you when you need help, even like when you mention that you’re really thirsty and she quickly offers you a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don’t assume that she’s into you only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum or a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she’s always ready to offer you something you might need, go further and ask her to help you with something else, like a school/work problem. It shouldn’t be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls who aren’t too smart might say that they don’t know how to help you with those kind of things. If she’s eager to help you, she probably likes you.